What does it truly mean to come of age?
In a world where young people are overwhelmed by choices and struggling to transition into adulthood, A Name and a Place offers a framework for reclaiming rites of passage — intentional growth experiences that cultivate identity, resilience, and belonging. The book equips elders and mentors to better guide young people into a more confident and purpose-filled adult life.
I. OVERVIEW
Authors: Bryce Cyrier & Christian Bateman
Summary: Many contemporary young people struggle to make a clear and purposeful transition into adulthood. With ever-shifting social norms, economic instability, and a proliferation of life choices, the path can seem more uncertain than ever. Traditional markers of adulthood—marriage, stable employment, and homeownership—are increasingly delayed or abandoned, leaving many "emerging adults" in prolonged limbo. At the same time, the pressures of a hyper-connected world and rising mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, and loneliness, only compound the challenge.
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How can individuals, families, faith communities, schools, and other institutions help young people step into adulthood with confidence? How can we provide a clearer growth path to maximize engagement and impact?
Enter rites of passage.
For millennia, cultures around the world have safeguarded critical transition periods with structured rituals that guide youth into maturity. This book uncovers the universal patterns and principles within these rites, and offers a practical framework for application in our specific communities and circumstances.
Drawing from anthropology, developmental psychology, and narrative storytelling, A Name and a Place presents a model for:
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Fostering healthy individuation and self-discovery
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Cultivating resilience and essential life skills
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Helping young people shape an identity according to their values
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Integrating them into adult roles, responsibilities, and communities
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By intentionally designing and implementing an array of intentional experiences throughout childhood and adolescence, families and communities can help young people navigate the turbulent waters of modern life. Instead of drifting through the liminal space of emerging adulthood, today’s youth can confidently claim both a “name” (a core identity) and a “place” (a meaningful role and belonging) in the world.
